First, I thought WOW this the same crap that's been going on for so long. Then I thought...if people lurk and choose not to participate, why must they blame it on others?
Wondering why it's always this way. People lash out at people they complain about lashing at others. People sending pms warning others away, and then complaining that nobody participates. People say play nice, and then they bully others. The whole world has gone NUTS!
Phone calls coming and going. Just found out our cousin passed. They haven't even told the kids yet. Going tonight and may be bringing the twins home with us. You can't offer comfort when you know there's none to be found in grief. The best you can do is be there.