Many of us cannot exercise or participate in strenuous activities because of vertigo. It got me to thinking...does anybody experience an increase in tinnitus and vertigo during and after sexual activity. I have.
BD you need to let Dolfan know what kind of TP you use! No, no, this is serious! I cannot believe that nobody else has experienced vertigo at that time.
I would have sex with a snake if I could get down that low and had somebody to hold its head still. You make love to your spouse, you have sex with your girlfriends and boyfriends, sex and love are two very different acts. Like Dolfan said I am recently married, only love, need a girlfriend for sex!
Sadly, sex is a severe trigger for me, at least done properly and in the fashion of my courtship of my wife and our first decade or two of married life. So hasn't happened for a long time. We have adjusted. Our relationship is stronger than ever, and while we miss that part of it, we have both been surprised by how small an impact that has had. And given that we are both fanatically loyal and faithful, the issue of any outside shenanigans has literally never arisen nor even occurred to either of us. As an aside, I think our country puts way too much emphasis on sex. It gets shoved in our face on TV, in the movies, in magazines, in billboards, on the internet. It cheapens and dulls it. Which is too bad.
You and your wife seem to have a great deal of intimacy and trust in your marriage. That is worth so much more than anything else.
You have a wonderful outlook on life and marriage. I understand completely and I knew I couldn't be the only one. However, for some this is a sensitive subject.