I read a book once, one of the chapters talked about all of us having prayer boxes in heaven. The basic message was, that we are all suppose to ask for blessings, yes.........for ourselves. God doesnt want any leftover blessings in our box when we get to heaven. They are just sitting there, waiting on us to ask and use them. If anyone feels like theirs is getting low, or that their box is already empty, then borrow from mine........leave me some.......replace what you borrow, only if you can. If you can't, then consider it a gift.